I think this is the first Hari Raya where I did not buy a single thing for the day. No new shoes , no new clothes. Nothing. My mom was so shocked she bought a baju kurung for me. In fact, she almost forced me. Lately I have been thinking, with economical and political unstability of this country,will our Raya happiness lasts ? Will we still be able to shop next year ? How about the poor ones around the world whom had to make do with what they have for raya ? I am not being a show off goody goody. This just popped into my mind as I aimlessly browse through racks of overpriced baju kurungs. I do appreciate my mother's purchase. Thank you.However, lets not let the situation damper the moods of the children. The best thing in life still is the laughter of kids. My not so little brother indulged in his shopping spree. Happy Hari Raya everyone!
oh, MMU students, goodluck for finals !
24.9.08
The Sad Eid.
22.9.08
19.9.08
Passionately Pink ! (from the Star)
Wednesday September 17, 2008
Mind the signs
By S. INDRAMALAR
Breast cancer is curable if detected and treated early.
A WOMAN in Malaysia has a one in 18 chance of being diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime. As stark as this statistic is, what’s even scarier is that many women, even educated ones, resist going for check-ups even when they notice abnormalities or lumps in their breasts.
Choy Wah Wei: ‘Breast cancer is not a death sentence and it is not a disease of old age. Your best defence is early detection.’
“You’d be surprised that we have patients who come in when they are in stage three or four (advanced stages of cancer) ... when their breasts have changed physically,” says Choy Wah Wei, chief executive officer of Assunta Hospital in Petaling Jaya.
“These patients can be divided into two groups. The first are those who don’t know about breast lumps or cancer. They are unaware and so, they ignore the signs. Then we have the second group of patients who know but have inhibitions.
“It is sad because if we have a cut, we’d rush to see a doctor. But when it comes to breast cancer, we are scared.”
Awareness, says Choy, is key: that early detection and treatment of breast cancer will result in successful treatment of the disease; that there is a wide range of treatments available, including breast reconstructive surgery to restore a patient’s body image should a mastectomy be necessary; and that there are many avenues for support, both physical, emotional and even financial, for patients.
The desire to increase awareness about the disease has prompted Assunta Hospital to get involved with Passionately Pink – Know. Prevent. Cure, a community project organised by Jaya One, Asia Assistance and PJ Live Arts.
Says Choy: “One of the main messages of Passionately Pink is ‘Don’t Duck A Breast Exam’. Breast cancer is not a death sentence and it is not a disease of old age. Your best defence is early detection.”
In conjunction with the campaign, Assunta Hospital is offering discounts on mammograms and breasts ultrasounds.
Consultant general surgeon at Assunta Hospital, M.M.S. Krish-nan stresses the importance for women to be screened for breast lumps and abnormalities, particularly those in high risk groups, such as women with a family history of breast cancer, those who have previously had non-cancerous lumps or with ovarian problems.
M.M.S. Krishnan: ‘What I want is to detect the disease even before a woman can feel a lump.’
“As a surgeon, what I want is to detect breast cancer before it’s palpable. To detect the disease even before a woman can feel a lump. Then we can cure the disease.” says Krishnan.
The Passionately Pink – Know. Prevent. Cure campaign is a two-month fundraiser and public awareness effort to bring attention to the importance of early detection, treatment options, available support for families of patients and the fact that life goes on even with and after treatment.
Says cancer survivor and Passionately Pink consultant Teri Choong: “This is really a programme for the grassroots. We want people to know that (being diagnosed with breast cancer) is not the end of the world. And that there is plenty of help out there for them and also their families.”
Adds Dr A.B. Manivanam: “People should know that breast cancer can be detected and that it is curable.”
What’s special about the cam-paign is that it includes program-mes for the families and friends of cancer patients, an often overlooked group. Husbands, wives (for there are men who are also diagnosed with breast cancer), children and friends are affected, too, and they often have to bear their emotions quietly while tending to the patient.
Says Choong: “Who says that only the patient suffers? When I was getting treatment I didn’t think about what my husband was going through until a friend of mine pointed out that he was also having a hard time dealing with the disease.
“The emotions of caregivers are often neglected because they are expected to take care of the patient. No one asks them what they are feeling or how they are coping.
“For example, it is not uncommon for husbands to feel repulsed, resentful and troubled when their wives are dealing with breast cancer. These are natural human emotions and there are outlets where they can seek help.”
Children, says counsellor and nurse Chooi Joo Lee, also need to be given special attention when a parent is undergoing treatment for cancer.
“Sometimes it is hard for them to understand why their lives have changed in an instant. Kids won’t understand why their mother is in hospital and their father spends most of his time there with her. Or, why their mummy can’t cook or play with them anymore. They feel afraid. They may not be totally prepared for the disease but they should at least be aware,” says Chooi.
In aid of the Breast Cancer Community Treatment Programme at Assunta Hospital, Passionately Pink runs in September and October and comprises various activities that target various groups.
Among the highlights are health and nutrition workshops, clinical breast checks and the coffee table talks where the public can listen to and consult medical professionals from the hospital, all for free.
Choong adds that apart from speaking to the various medical professionals about the disease, practical sessions like “Look Good, Feel Good” are important.
“Who says we have to look like crap just because we have cancer! The session will focus on dealing with cancer treatments, the various beauty therapies you can go for as well as experimentation with wigs ... we’ll show you how to get your wigs styled,” says Choong.
Other activities in conjunction with the campaign include a cooking workshop on preparing healthy meals, an outdoor concert led by singer-songwriter Izzy Mohamed and featuring Estrella, Jasemaine Gan and Zalila Lee and even a basketball tournament.
* The Passionately Pink campaign will be held at Jaya One in Petaling Jaya. The coffee table talks will be held every Saturday and Sunday beginning Sept 20 until Nov 8, from 11am to 8pm. To find out more about the campaign, log on to www.jayaone.com.my or call the secretariat (03-7638 3838, ext 5011)
Sex and Sexuality ( from the Star)
Wednesday September 17, 2008
Sex and sexuality
THE DOCTOR SAYS
By DR MILTON LUM
Many people think sex and sexuality are synonymous with each other but they have different meanings.
According to a World Health Organisation definition, “sex” refers to the biological characteristics that differentiate humans as females and males. However, these characteristics are not mutually exclusive, as there are some individuals who possess both female and male characteristics.
The term sex, when used commonly, often means “sexual activity” in many communities globally.
“Sexuality” is a central aspect of being human throughout life. It includes sex, gender identities and roles, sexual orientation, eroticism, pleasure, intimacy and reproduction.
Sexuality is experienced and expressed in thoughts, fantasies, desires, beliefs, attitudes, values, behaviours, practices, roles and relationships. Not all aspects of the various facets of sexuality are always experienced or expressed. It is influenced by biological, psychological, social, economic, political, cultural, ethical, legal, historical, religious and spiritual factors.
It is generally accepted that sexuality begins at or soon after birth. Infants feel the warmth, closeness and pleasant sensations when they are carried by their mothers especially during breast feeding.
Small boys often get erections, especially after seven years of age. However, sexuality does not involve the genital organs only. It is part of everything that a person is. That is why many young people identify with someone they admire, including celebrities, parents or teachers.
Although most children do not become sexually active, like adults, until they reach puberty, it is important to remember that the foundations of sexual development and sexual health are laid in childhood.
All children learn how to interact with others and develop socially acceptable behaviour. Gender identity and gender roles develop during childhood. The understanding of relationships and development of values in early childhood are the foundations of the development and evolution of sexuality as children grow up.
Parents and caregivers are the primary sexual health educators for children, from the time they are infants and toddlers. As children grow up, they also learn about sexuality from other family members, play and school mates, and people in the world around them. While initially age-dependent, the rate and nature of sexuality development vary considerably from child to child.
At puberty, there are many physical and hormonal changes which awaken sexual feelings in different ways. The changes involve the body and mind of adolescents who wonder about new and often intense sexual feelings.
Adolescents encounter enormous pressures with respect to sex and sexuality. The messages they receive are often conflicting. On the one hand, sex is seen from a negative perspective and associated with fear, guilt and disease.
On the other hand, peers and the media portray it positively and often as desirable. This is often compounded by a lack of accurate information, skills and awareness of their rights, notwithstanding the sex education that they are supposed to receive in school.
Most, if not all, adolescents need time to understand who they are and who they are becoming, including their sexual feelings and attractions. Peer pressure and media focus, however, often do not give them enough time to do so.
Society’s shortcomings in meeting the emotional, social and health needs of adolescents and young people in respect of their sexuality is reflected in the increasing numbers of sexually transmitted infections including HIV/AIDS, unwanted pregnancies, sexual abuse and suicides. It is sad that many opinion leaders still have simplistic explanations and solutions for such complex issues.
Sexuality during the reproductive years does not pose many problems relatively. However, they may arise when there is ill health, after menopause and in senior citizens.
Senior citizens with positive attitudes view sexuality as an affirmation of physical health, an expression of affection and loyalty, a continuing opportunity for growth and experience, and a maintenance of identity and self-confidence.
The negative stereotype of senior citizens is that of desexualised invalids at one extreme or “dirty old men” or “lecherous old women” at the other. Some senior citizens, who are physically healthy, may have such a view of themselves. This is reflected in the refusal to associate with fellow senior citizens and attempts, often futile, to appear inappropriately young.
Sexuality in senior citizens is affected by common problems in the age group, i.e. medical disorders, ill health or death of a partner, access to friends and relatives and lack of accurate information about sex and sexuality.
Sexuality does not have an age limit. Many men and women continue to have a satisfying sex life when they get older. There is no reason why sex should not continue into the 70s or 80s.
Sexual orientation
This refers to the gender that a person is attracted to. There are different types of sexual orientation:
·Heterosexuals are romantically and physically attracted to members of the opposite sex, i.e. male to female and vice versa. They are sometimes called “straight.”
·Homosexuals are romantically and physically attracted to people of the same sex. Females attracted to other females are called lesbians. Males attracted to other males are called homosexuals and are often known as gay. The term gay is sometimes also used to describe homosexual individuals of either gender.
·Bisexuals are romantically and physically attracted to members of both sexes.
Adolescents often have sexual thoughts and attractions, some of which may be intense, confusing or disturbing, particularly when they involve someone of the same gender. It is important to remember that having sexual thoughts about people of the same or opposite gender does not necessarily mean that one has a particular sexual orientation.
A person’s sexual orientation is a reflection of his or her sexual and emotional feelings towards people of the same or opposite gender. By the time one reaches adulthood, one should have a pretty good idea of what one’s sexual orientation is.
Many doctors believe that sexual orientation involves a complex mix of biology, psychology and environmental factors. There is strong evidence that homosexuality is more common in certain families, even when the children were given up for adoption, indicating that genes play a role in its development. The hormonal environment in the womb too may have an influence on sexual orientation later in life.
There are scientific studies that challenge the view that homosexuality is a lifestyle choice or sexual preference, and that it is “pre-determined”. However, there are many who disagree.
It is likely that the genesis of a person’s sexual orientation is not yet completely understood.
The Health Ministry’s Third National Health and Morbidity Survey in 2006 reported that, among Malaysians who revealed their sexual orientations, 95.8% were heterosexuals, 2.2% were bisexuals, 1.1% were lesbians and 0.9% were gays.
In conclusion, it is important to distinguish sex from sexuality. Whereas the former refers to biological characteristics, the latter encompasses what is human and extends across the ages. Sexual orientation is a complex mix of nature and nurture, the origins of which are yet to be completely clarified.
* Dr Milton Lum is the chairman of the Commonwealth Medical Trust. This article is not intended to replace, dictate or define evaluation by a qualified doctor. The views expressed do not represent that of any organisation the writer is associated with.
16.9.08
My mother passed away in 1994, three weeks after she found out that she had cancer. It was devastating to me, and I feel as if I will never heal.
My mother was everything to me.....my teacher, my counselor, my cheerleader, my caretaker; but most of all, my best friend.
I cannot even explain my feelings of loss....never has anything hurt this bad. Not a day goes by that she is not in my thoughts, and I just wish I could've held her one more time and told her how much she meant to me.
I can only hope to leave the kind of impression on my children that my mom has left with me....I was blessed to be given this special person as my mom.
God bless her and keep her...............with all my love. Thank you for letting me share with you.....
Tina R.
Condolences to Kak Syana for her mother's departure to meet Allah. Her mother shall always be remembered for her many good qualities, one of which is her brave fight against cancer,and she is one of my heroes in battling breast tumor. Please keep her in your prayers. Insya Allah, she is among the pious. My thoughts are with the family.Ramadhan is a good month, and those that are taken from us during this month are Allah's beloved.Allah loves her more than us, and she,with all her perfection,is only borrowed for a short while.Allah breaks our hearts to show us she is truly His.Al-fatihah.
Borrowed.
Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed into his lap, and just sat there. When his mother asked him what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing I just helped him cry."
Sent in by Martha Varzaly --- Pennsylvania
Dont blame anyone but Him
Pak Lah, can you just resign? You are so stupid to use ISA for your own means. Now,your own leaders are against you publicly. Malu tak malu ? Please just resign. You holding office nie buat malu diri sendiri sajer, org lagi ckp you nie terrible leader.Just face the fact you suck as a PM and resign. Better yet, disappear. I do not know since when lah you jadi mcm nie, I used to really respect you. Resign ok, resign. If you put me on ISA because of this lil post, then by all means I leave it in the hands of God. But I shall keep writing because who knows, maybe this humble post shall awake you from your dreams.
14.9.08
Rest In Peace.
12.9.08
Theobroma Chocolate Lounge Pavilion *Revisited*
Theobroma never fails to make me love it even more ! Officially my lounging spot now! I tried the Strawberry with White Choc dip, and it was delish! Sumptuous and rich white chocolate ( you can choose from dark to white) with big,fresh strawberries. Love it ! The drinks, Snow White frappe and Snow White caramel or something were both nice. Will go again to sample the waffles. Nice~
Clinelle is nice, and affordable at only rm 13 for starter which consists of travel sized facial gel cleanser,toner and moisturiser. I added the LMS Line Management System. The cleanser is amazing, and cleanses well. No tightness. The toner is fab, no oilyness considering this is an off the shelf product. I always get bad toners from off the shelf. The moisturiser, however is not adequately moisturising. I get some dryness. However, it makes my face matte when I woke up. Yours truly have extremely active oil glands and i always wake up to a face so oily I looked like I was wearing gel masks. Good buy, the effect is slow prolly because it has no chemicals. I will stick with the toner and the LMS.My face looks radiant after the LMS. But for moisturiser, I will stick to Kose for night use.
Oh, and I am currently chanelling this headgear. Fast fix for something unique and boho. I used necklaces from Jonker. ;)
**I think Pavilion food court is the best for lunch as it provides best options. However, it is hard to review because I got too shy to take pics. :) Any tips on how to discreetly take pics people ?
11.9.08
Tagged by Kak Leeds
* The 10 people I tag are to then to follow my footsteps and write their own 15 weird things/habits and little known facts.
(tagged by Kak leeds) :
My classmate Dan called me quirky so maybe you can judge based on the facts :
1. Phobia of driving,err more to hitting something due to the accident I was involved in after I just got my license.
2. I always made up past conversations in my head and actually replied to them out loud.
3. Try to be as nude as I possibly can at home. But not at my parents'.My roommates are so used to me.Kudos to them
4.I love snakes except for the head and tail.I feel squeamish when those parts touches me.
5. I cannot eat properly in front of strangers. Shy !
6.I dont believe you when you compliments me. I hate compliments.I dont trust them.
7. I love shopping alone much better than when I am with friends.
8. I believe in werewolves.I get nervous when I saw the full moon. I tried to avoid going out so late during the full moon.Dont laugh.
9. I love guys who treated me like shits. The more they do, the more I love them.Je suis folle.
10. Love to cook decent dishes but I do not know how.
11. Neurotic.I am currently using anti aging serum at 21 and always have this fear that I am not healthy as I think and try to keep up by buying everything on the market.
12. I love to be at the beach when it rains.
13. I have an imaginary husband named Shahril Najmi.
14. I love kids a lot. But i am scared of childbirth.
15.Will pick a fight with someone I love dearly to show I care.Just like Korean movies.
I tag :
-Rashid.
-Kak Naddy
-Juli Teo
-Nico
-Arif
-Sarahnina
-Kak Eza
-Kak Hanis
-Kak Julie
-Kak Naya
World darkness
On Wendesday, September 17, 2008, I invite people around the world to turn off their lights for ten minutes – from 9:50pm to 10:00pm in their local time zone. IT WILL BE TO 9:50pm TO 10:00pm IN THE LOCAL TIME ZONE OF YOUR COUNTRY.
Spread this message.
So that everyone can join an event of great importance as we are proposing, I dedided to remove the adaptation to the time location of each country. I recall, that apart from "the fact of turning off the lights," it is important to raise awareness among the population of Global Warming and pressuring world leaders to act effectively against this problem that concerns to all of us, because it is our world. According to my understanding the "joint action" of the participants is not greatly lost, because the event will be conducted throughout the country and also throughout their time zone at the same time.
Therefore, the blackout will take place in stages, performing a similar effect to the races with posts, like this, each time zone will be delegating its responsibility to the others through the day.
If the event had been realised through joint action across the globe (all at the same time), entire regions hadn’t been able to do this.
It is important that the blackout can be performed throughout the world, because the reason for the event, which I have make explicit before, has to be done by many people as possible. Another cause of the blackout format is that some environmentalists informed me, that the impact around the world of being reconnected would be detrimental to the environment. It is important the realisation of the blackout in a safe environment. Hence, I don’t promote darkening streets, public areas, hospitals, emergency services, and traffic lights lamps or lighting road.
Therefore, the format of the blackout will be to 9:50 PM to 10 PM in the local time of each country.
PS: I suggest the progressive reconnection of the electric machines, to avoid what some experts tell as an overload. I Support people who will prefer to turn off lights not only the time expected(10 minutes).
Thank you four your time, Andres Schelp
Worldwide darkness: On September 17th 2008, from 21:50 hours to 22:00 hours in the local time of your country.The proposal is to turn off all lights and as many electrical appliances as possible, to give our planet a "breather".If participation is overwhelming, the energy saving may be huge. Just shut everything down for ten minutes, to see what happens.Ten minutes of darkness. Light a candle, look at the flame and breath, together with the planet.Remember: unity is power. The internet can thus be enormously powerful - and even more than that.Spread the word, if you have friends abroad, please forward this message to them.
Impact of Global Warming:
* An increase in the number and size of fires, resulting in the loss of thousands of hectares per year
* Increased melting of Glaciers and consequently of sea level
* Reduction of the ozone layer
* An increase in average temperatures
* Loss of productivity of crops
* Increased Mortality
* Extinction of species
* Increased virulence of natural phenomena
* Reduction in productivity of marine waters, and therefore, for fisheries
10.9.08
Earth Charter.
Stream of Life
The same stream of life that runs through my veins night and day
runs through the world and dances in rhythmic measures.
It is the same life that shoots in joy through the dust of the earth
in numberless blades of grass
and breaks into tumultuous waves of leaves and flowers.
It is the same life that is rocked in the ocean-cradle of birth
and of death, in ebb and in flow.
I feel my limbs are made glorious by the touch of this world of life.
And my pride is from the life-throb of ages dancing in my blood this moment.Seeds of Change.
1. shopaholics, buy organic clothes ( guess jeans, organic cotton tees)
2.plant trees, if everyone do this, we will have millions of trees
3.reduce electricity
4.be nice to your community
5.do not litter
6.reduce water by closing the tap when you brush, or use tumbler
7.bring your own fashionable tote bags to reduce plastic
8.reduce using non recyclable containers
9.educate your friends about the importance of saving the environment
10. participate in any environmental issues.
IF YOU ARE STILL SELFISH :
30,000 CHILDREN DIE FROM HUNGER EVERYDAY DUE TO SCARCE RESOURCES
30 LAKES DISAPPEAR FROM CHINA
WATER POLLUTION IS RISING, SOONER WE WILL HAVE TO KILL FOR WATER.
Deborah Cox-Beautiful You Are
Beautiful lyric,cool music. Very good to bop to.Or to heal that broken soul. Listen up girls.and Guys. ;)
I am Pure Malaysian.
However, i absolutely have to agree on THIS. If we can see, other races have used certain platforms to raise racist issues against Malays and Islam recently such as the freedom of religion and The Bar Council forum. I cannot comment thoroughly for fear of invoking anything, but I really think we should all dwell deeper on the discussion. Is it really freedom of religion we are discussing or a claim to erase the sovereignty of Islam ? I seem to know one or two cases where Christians converted Muslims through means that does not allow the ones converted to be in his or her clear mind. But I shall not dwell on that, and no emails please. So how come no one comes forward to this matter, but when any laws or petition in favor of Islam is raised, everyone goes into an uproar ? We all can still practice our respective religions here right ? No one is banning anyone. This is not V for Vendetta. So how come it is only Islam in the spotlight?
I am a mixture of races and this is a fact i acquired recently, but I was brought up to be Malay. I have no problem with other races and I will respect other races, as long as they respect my race.How can I not then since I myself am a product of those races, to a certain extend. I think if we all respect each other and stop pushing other limits, we can all be in peace like before. Where did all these protestants come from, i do not know. But i do wish we can all stop and ponder, what is so bad about the previous position regarding racial issues that we all want to protest for more ? Do you not know that protesting is damaging this country ? Who will benefit then ?
7.9.08
Blue.
naddy (9/7/2008 10:31:56 AM): yea
naddy (9/7/2008 10:32:12 AM): the poor girl
naddy (9/7/2008 10:32:24 AM): i feel sorry for her actually..she seems like a nice girl
Azra (9/7/2008 10:32:37 AM): dun be too tied up in the sad feeling k?
Azra (9/7/2008 10:32:37 AM): ur happy blog dh tukar depressing dh
*edited conversation to protect privacy*
Babe, i will recuperate in a while.Pink Gloss will stop its darky darky matte, and turn pinky with high glossiness again~!! So what if Aziz Sultan got a new gf, im still banging ! ;p
Words of Advice.
I have a few things to everyone based on my personal experiences.Here goes :
1. Do not fall in love hard. Make sure you have a level ground to fall back to. Get to know his friends. If he shows signs of being too perfect, or dishonest, investigate. Do not see your lover through rose tinted glasses. Nobody can be perfect. Listen to your best friends, even though what they say will be against your desires.
3. Please,listen to your intuition. We women are blessed with an extra instinct, and it is often useful. We are all insightful to a certain extend.But do not confuse it with your desires. Think thoroughly.
4. No matter what, play by the rules. No kissing on the first date, no sex until after marriage or for a few months at least. If the guy does not want to play along, he is not worth hooking up with.
5. If he is worth hooking up with, do not live with regret by not saying you love him.Forget the pride and go ahead with your heart. Do not listen to what people say, except your friends because in the end, it is you who will live with your action or abstinence.
And there you have it, cliched but when something bad happens, you will look into these and think why you do not follow these before. So I am here to remind you people.
6.9.08
The Lust You Carried.
The students thought of the encounter the whole way until one of them cannot stand questioning and asked the teacher,"Teacher, we are pious. We cannot be in close proximity with women.Yet why are you doing such with that woman?". The teacher asked which woman and the student replied the woman that the teacher carried across the river.The teacher smiled before replying, "My friend, I stopped carrying her a long time, yet you thought of her the whole way".
Lesson : The one carrying has no lust towards the girl, but the students carried the lustful thoughts throughout the journey. Can we say the same for people accusing others of close proximity ?
3.9.08
al-fatihah
Condolences to Doli on the departure of his grandmother to meet her Maker. Ramadhan is a holy month, Doli. May her soul rest in peace. AL-Fatihah.
Separated by a Chance.
My mother told me a ghost story that occured when she was studying at her Institute Perguruan in Lembah Pantai. She saw a girl sitting on the foot of her bed watching her while she was sleeping. This occured after her friend was sent home after nights of hysteria. Further research concluded that the girl died from jumping off the building after her boyfriend dumped her. After that, she was seen at the laundry room, always washing clothes. The lift and the cafeteria is always her spot too. She was seen by almost everyone and was always at the same spot. The emergency bell will ring sometimes without reason and the guard concluded that she wanted everyone to vacate the bulding so she can peacefully search for her boyfriend. She never disturbs anyone, just watched people. In a way, I can totally relate to her sad story. I understand how she feels. I too, feel the urge to kill myself. What saves me from sharing her fate is support from friends. Please pray for her so her soul will rest in peace. I know many almost share the same fate. We are only separated with her fate by a chance.A chance to change our lives.
Birthdays and Ramadhan.
Ramadhan is here again. Time to detox, enjoy great food but most important of all make use of this holy month to repent for sins and reap as many benefits including lailatul Qadar, insya Allah. HAPPY FASTING TO ALL AND PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR ANY SINS THAT I HAVE COMMITTED. I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT MOST ARE DONE WITHOUT INTENTION.
Rashid, my good friend quietly turned 21 on tuesday.Happy belated to you my truly good friend.Stay a diva babe !! WE love you ~ Sebab server slow and keji, i only wished him via YM today. Benci ! hahahaa
